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Friday, 28 September 2012

Does dating interfer with studies?

Parents will think it does. Especially my parents. They are confused. I remembered when i was in JC or even earlier, I was quite the tom boy. Mum got very worried. I was loud & totally not lady like. Sher'll bring me to buy dresses- I hated them. Shorts & T-shirt was all I wear & not those sexy kind hahha..... The other thing I wore was my JC uniform... it's like a second skin for me. So they got worried!

After JC I've more time & met a girlir girl in uni. She open my eyes to dating. She's like dating alot......lol...... many guys after her! OK lots were dating back in JC days but I'm kinda retarded in that area...hahha... & my gang were all against boys in class so.... but one year later it's different.

Bump into a guy first day in uni & had acrush immediately. Saw his buddy 30 mins later, had another crush.....hhahhaa.... Ya a bit shameless at the rate I was falling !!! Anyway it has been fun.

So does dating interfer with my studies? Not much... I've a system. I can cramp stuff into my head if I want to. That's my special power...hhahaha..... My gfs are always falling in & out of love, another one is acting like she's married to a pimply MCP, my bestie is eyeing a guy that's attached....sigh... ya, lots going on in school!!!! HOpe no parents are reading!!!
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  1. Joan9 October 2012 at 10:38

    Seriously ....I cant imagine you being a tom boy before!!!

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  2. Apple8 November 2012 at 12:10

    Care to review who are these lucky guys???? You shameless creature....lol.....!!!!

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    1. Bethany16 November 2012 at 16:56

      LOL.... no way!
      Found out later they were attached anyway!

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  3. Megan22 December 2012 at 09:59

    Dating intefer with my studies from day one.
    My O level results sucks because of a boy!!!!!
    We broke up, broke my heart so no mood to study....
    Now , I'm like super careful!!!!

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    1. Shannon18 May 2013 at 20:36

      Ya balancing studies & dating is tacky.
      I came from an all girls school, when I enter poly, I was very distracted by all the attention from the guys. It took me almost a year to kind of settle down.
      My studies hurt much. Lucky still got time to rectify. Also lucky I met my bf, & it helps, as we study together. But before that it was tough.

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  4. Lily24 April 2013 at 11:10

    My X broke off with me 1 week before my finals. I didn't do well for any subjects because of it. Thank God I'm still consider one of those hard working students, so I still manage to pass- BUT I could have done a LOT better. My parents were so disappointed with my results. I hated myself for it.
    Lesson learnt, boys are over rated, they can be really heartless.

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    1. Shannon18 May 2013 at 20:39

      Wow that's mean.
      What is it with guys that break off before big impt events like exams or birthdays huh? My best buddy got dump on her birthday! I just cant believe it!

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  5. Bethany27 May 2013 at 12:39

    Ladies thank you so much for sharing. We all need to prioritize. Studies before guys- that will not go wrong.
    Guys come & go, the degree stays with you till you drop dead...lol...

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  6. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 11:19

    But you cant control when, how & who you fall in love with. If you can then that's not love, why even live then? Like robots ya? And Even Wall-E falls in love!

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    1. Joe11 October 2013 at 12:07

      Wall-E is a movie ! How old are you "anonymous" ?

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    2. Megan11 October 2013 at 20:27

      Sounds like 'anon' is in love...lol...

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    3. Anonymous29 October 2013 at 20:33

      I could be older than all of you. But the times when I fell in love, I just couldn't help it. I think of that person nite & day, just cant control! So ...yes, it did affect my studies :(

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    4. Megan30 October 2013 at 10:16

      ... we've all been there :(

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    5. Joe26 November 2013 at 01:07

      Hi anon, that's infatuation lah.... some school girl crush... or maybe even lust....hahhahha...

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    6. Chad26 November 2013 at 01:10

      wow... you still lurking around Beth's blog !!! at this hr?

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    7. Joe26 November 2013 at 01:11

      and you.... same same...lol.... ???

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    8. Chad26 November 2013 at 01:11

      Just checking what's new.... Zzzzzz bro....

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  7. MeiShin4 July 2014 at 10:23

    Interesting topic, I think it does. For those who argue it does not have not fallen in love before. Love does funny things to you :(

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    1. Chad5 July 2014 at 09:47

      Sound like a veteran expert ....lol....

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    2. Joan15 July 2014 at 10:05

      Beth , Chad is going to chase all your blog's visitors away by his inappropriate remarks !

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    3. Bethany23 July 2014 at 10:06

      I know, that's why I'm waiting for his blog, then we go over to flood his with the most 'creative' remarks as well :)

      By the way MeiShin welcome to my blog :)

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  8. QiYan5 August 2014 at 11:09

    If you balance both properly it wont interfere as much. Infact I've seen couples studying together & helping each other. Both benefit.

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    1. Chad6 August 2014 at 09:58

      Sure they are only "studying" together...wink...wink....lol..

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    2. Joan16 August 2014 at 11:41

      Same old comments! Chad ,you ever have something different? It's not even funny anymore. You're like a kid !

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    3. Chad19 August 2014 at 12:41

      Dear old Joan of Arc I'm like Peter Pan, evergreen ....lol.....

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    4. Joan20 August 2014 at 11:12

      Stop calling me that !

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    5. Megan28 August 2014 at 11:21

      Would 2 of you just quit!

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  9. Anonymous9 September 2014 at 09:43

    I seriously think this is an impt issue. This affects many students. And many "would be" brilliant students end up didn't do well because of BGR. If they can learn to balance the 2 , studies & r/s then it's best- but often it's difficult :( They become victims.

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    1. Chad16 September 2014 at 09:29

      How to balance, love is blind ...lol.

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    2. Anonymous13 March 2015 at 11:35

      Support from friends are impt. If you see your friend "spending" too much time & emotions on someone, just sound her out.

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  10. NoBoys20 June 2015 at 11:01

    Dating ruin my exams as we broke up right before my A-levels. My parents were so pissed:((

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